how to get a girls attention  

Little tips and tricks that get one girl's attention might turn another girl's attention away, because every girl is different! So if there's a girl whose attention you want, what do you do? The following steps will help you get the attention of any girl whose attention is worth having, no matter how old, young, rich, poor, shy, or friendly she is.

Steps

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   Learn basic guidelines for how to act around girls. Girls tend to have a different humor and perspective than guys, so being aware of and sensitive to these differences is important for your socialization.
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   • As you learn how to interact with girls, they will respond more positively towards your actions and you will feel more comfortable with them.
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    Relax.
   Relax. When you are tense or nervous, you will be more prone to feeling embarrassed if you make some minor mistakes. Staying calm allows you to fully enjoy a girl's company. Be careful not to place all your hopes on a single girl; it will only make it more painful if things don't work out as you would like. Don't let any prior sour experiences prevent you from seeking opportunities that are available to you.
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   Respect all girls equally. You stand a much better chance of making a good overall impression if you treat girls that don't interest you just as nicely as those that do. This doesn't mean that you need to talk to or flirt with every girl, but don't ignore them or treat them dismissively. Don't talk to a girl about other girls' attractiveness; it's distasteful and can degrade the girl's opinion of herself. You generally shouldn't talk about past relationships you've had, or other girls that interest you; it detracts from building a new relationship.
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    Exhibit good manners.
   Exhibit good manners. Girls love guys who are politeand courteous. Refrain from doing or saying things that many people consider offensive, including swearing and making sexist/racist/etc. jokes or comments. Saying things that you know would probably offend some people isn't a good way to make or keep friends. If you act like a gentleman, demonstrating your respect for females and other people in general, girls will be more likely to welcome your company.
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    Make brief eye contact.
   Make brief eye contact. Don't stare, and don't avoid eye contact. When your eyes meet hers, hold that contact steadily for a second or two, maybe throw in a grin or a smile if it feels right, and look away and continue with your business. Something as simple asflirty eye contact can show a girl that you're both confident and interested.
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    Make people laugh.
   Make people laugh. Girls love guys who have a good sense of humor, and the key to having a good sense of humor is to be lighthearted and unabashedly yourself.
   • As long as you're not making fun of people in a mean-spirited way, anything goes.
   • Is your sense of humor perverted? Slapstick? Sarcastic? Go with it, and don't worry about whether or not she thinks you're funny because you know what? If she can't laugh with you, then this isn't a girl you want to spend a lot of time with anyway.
   • And who knows? Maybe another girl—one whom you hadn't noticed before will be laughing so hard that her soda comes out of her nose, and maybe you've just found your soulmate.
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   Be attentive. When you talk to a girl, give her your full attention. Make eye contact, and don't give in to distractions. Listen carefully to what she says, and you may learn a lot about her and discover interests that you have in common.
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    March to the beat of your own drummer.
   March to the beat of your own drummer. It's hard to grab anyone's attention when you look and act like everyone else. Do your own thing, whether that means standing up for yourself, defending someone else, or taking interest in something that no one else does, like playing an instrument or dancing when no one else will. The coolest people are the ones who break against the tide and make people question the status quo.
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    Act confident.
   Act confident. Even if you're not very confident, you can still pretend that you are, and sometimes the positive results that you get from acting confident will help youbuild true confidence.
   • The main thing is that you don't want to come off as needy, as if embarrassing yourself in front of her is the most devastating thing that could possibly happen to you.
   • If you're scared of screwing up, it will show in your body language and most girls can pick up on it as a turn-off. So act fearless. Remind yourself that even if you say the wrong thing, who cares? You can laugh it off, and there are other fish in the sea. This kind of attitude will change the way you carry yourself, and that can grab a lot of girls' attention!
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     Help someone.
    Help someone. It could be her, or it could be someone else in the room. #*Is she carrying something heavy? Say "let me help you with that" and carry it for her.
    • Is someone short on cash? Lend them a few dollars so they can eat lunch.
    • Hold the door open for the next person coming through, even if they haven't reached it yet.
    • In other words, be a kind and generous person. Not only will it get her attention, but it will also make you feel good about yourself. #*Don't be fake and do nice things only when she's around, though. Help people all the time, in a wide variety of ways. She'll notice, and so will the people she knows, and on the occasion that you come up in a conversation, people will say "He's such a great person!" and this girl will start thinking "Yeah...he is, isn't he?"
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Tips

• One thing that holds many guys back is being scared that she'll misinterpret you. For example, you might not want to help her carry something because you're worried she'll think you're a macho guy, and you're implying that she can't carry it herself. But push the fear aside and think about what you're really doing. You're just helping her because you genuinely want to, and what could possibly be wrong with that? If you're not trying to question her ability in any way, then she's not a very nice girl for assuming that you are, is she? So be bold. If what you're doing comes from the heart, a decent girl will see that.Remember a girl of your dreams is someone who cares and probably does not make you a joke with her friends.
  • Don't panic if you do something embarrassing. A lot of girls find that really cute, especially if you are able to recover with good humor.
• If you have a good relationship with a sister close to your age, that can be a model for how to move and speak around girls.
• It's okay to tease her a little, but generally not about her appearance. If you're not sure she'll take your teasing the right way, try something else instead. Just watch your timing and try not to be too goofy, or you may make a fool of yourself.
• Watch her body language; if she's shifting her weight a lot and not making eye contact, she's probably uncomfortable. It may be the conversation topic, how close you are standing or sitting next to her, or something else. Respect her feelings, and change the subject or step back, if necessary, depending on what is bothering her.

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Warnings

• Girls like it when you're forward but not in a creepy way. Smile at her in a way that's clear, friendly, and/or playful. If you feel compelled to honesty, you can offer a sincere compliment. For example, you could say she has beautiful eyes or a beautiful smile. But, only say things like that if you want it to be obvious that you intend on moving beyond flirting. Select something good that is reserved for her only; it will make her feel wonderfully special, admired, and beautiful.
• Don't be too casual in sharing the details of your interactions with a girl. You should limit the disclosure to really close friends whom you can trust to not tell others. If you treat your relationship with a girl as a form of entertainment for your friends, you will undermine the potential for a deeper and lasting connection with her.
• Don't focus too much on one girl if she isn't enjoying the extra attention. She may get annoyed, and it will likely hurt your relationship.
• Many girls like it when you can't take your eyes off them, but not when you're staring at their boobs. Although there are some girls that may enjoy such attention, you won't offend anyone by focusing on her face instead. Do not oggle her. Just remember to use discretion and show proper respect.
• There is nothing wrong with trying to make her feel special long into a relationship, but trying to kiss up to her, especially within the first few weeks of knowing her, will do more harm than good, and you will be labeled more as a friend who tries to buy her attention than a potential mate.
• Having good manners is important. Don't pick your nose, scratch your butt, pick at your body in any way, fart, or burp, cough, or sneeze with your mouth wide open, etc. Gross her out, and you'll be lucky if she ever looks at you again.